🌸 Reflections from My Mom’s Journals – Entry #10 Choose to live in Joy. Choose to live in Peace. Strive for excellence, not perfection. - Vince Lombardi Realize and accept that life is not fair. Learn from the past. Plan for the future. Don’t sweat the small stuff. It’s all small stuff. - Richard Carlson “Realize and accept that life is not fair. Learn from the past and plan for the future.” How often have I found myself thinking, "This just isn’t fair!" But what is fair, really? If we lived a perfectly charmed—or Instagram-filtered—life, would that feel more fair? Sometimes, I wonder if we’re confusing fairness with entitlement. We work so hard for a specific goal, and when it doesn’t materialize, we feel wronged. Why? Is it because we’ve seen others succeed with seemingly little effort? If they can do it, why not me? Take Suzie and John, for example. Maybe they have the picture-perfect marriage. And maybe it feels unfair that you don’t. But what if S...