🌸 Reflections from Mom’s Journals — Entry #17
Forgiveness, Flying High, and a Little Dyer Wisdom
“There are no justified resentments.” – Dr. Wayne Dyer
“Don’t die with your music still in you.” – Dr. Wayne Dyer
“The higher we soar, the smaller we appear to those who cannot fly.” – Friedrich Nietzsche
“Forgiveness is an act of self-love.” – Unknown (but let’s give Dyer a little credit here too)
“You can only give away to others what you have inside yourself.” – Dr. Wayne Dyer
“Believe it and you’ll see it.” – Dr. Wayne Dyer
“How others treat me is their path. How I react is mine.” – Dr. Wayne Dyer
Whew. That’s a lot of wisdom in a small space. But don’t worry—I’m going to unpack it all with the same grace and poise I use when trying to carry 15 grocery bags inside in one trip.
Forgiveness: It’s Not a Hall Pass, It’s a Get-Out-of-Jail-Free Card (For You)
The first time I read “Forgiveness is an act of self-love,” I had to stop and let that marinate. I mean, really? Forgiving someone who clearly deserved to be banished to a deserted island with only dial-up internet? That felt like letting them off the hook—like handing them a “Get Out of Karma” card.
But here’s the twist: forgiveness isn’t for them. It’s for you. The truth is, most of the time, the person you’re holding that grudge against has no clue you’ve mentally cast them in the villain role. They’re out there living their life while you’re carrying around a suitcase full of resentment like it’s a carry-on for a trip you never wanted to take. And that emotional baggage? It gets heavy—mentally, physically, and spiritually.
So yes, letting go is a radical act of self-love. Not because they deserve it, but because you do. You deserve the peace that comes from no longer dragging around that mess. Let. That. Sh*t. Go.
Your Reaction Is Your Reputation
Another quote that made me stop mid-scroll was this gem:
“How others treat me is their path, how I react is mine.”
Um, can we get that stitched on a throw pillow, please?
Think about it: someone rolls their eyes, makes a passive-aggressive jab, or (my personal favorite) offers “constructive criticism” that feels more like a drive-by insult. Our knee-jerk response is to react, defend, and protect our sacred honor like we’re in some medieval drama.
But maybe silence would speak louder. Maybe walking away and considering the source says more about your growth than any comeback ever could. Because while the mud looks tempting when someone slings it first, I’d much rather be up on the high road sipping my iced coffee in peace.
Meet the Man Behind the Mic: Dr. Wayne Dyer
Let’s talk about the legendary soul who dropped all this wisdom—Dr. Wayne Dyer. If I had a “Mentors I’ve Never Met but Fully Claim as My Own” wall, he’d be framed and front-center.
According to Wikipedia (yes, we’re going there), Dr. Dyer was an American self-help author and motivational speaker. He held degrees in History, Philosophy, Psychology, and earned a doctorate in Guidance and Counseling from Wayne State University. Born in Detroit on May 10, 1940, he passed away in Maui in 2015, leaving behind not only eight children but a massive legacy of insight and inspiration.
Between Goodreads and ThriftBooks, he’s credited with over 100 books—maybe closer to 200, depending on who’s counting and whether journals and audio editions get their own tally. (I say yes.)
I personally have many of them, and they’re not just “decorative” bookshelf items. These babies are worn in, highlighted, scribbled in, dog-eared, and loved. You could say they’re the spiritual equivalent of a favorite hoodie: comfortable, comforting, and always there when you need it most.
Final Thought (Before You Float Away On a Cloud of Enlightenment)
So here’s the thing. Life is messy. People are messy. We’re all doing our best (well, most of us are). But when you let quotes like these sink in—not just skim across your eyeballs like another Pinterest scroll—they can actually shift something inside of you.
Let’s forgive a little faster. React a little slower. And if all else fails, remember: your path is yours, and no one else can walk it quite like you.
Now go be the flying, forgiving, fabulous soul you were meant to be. ✨
💋✨Until next time... Keep loving & living your best life!
Wishing you Love, Light & Sparkles!
🌸 Carrie
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